Over the years – and before I starting banging escorts – I have observed that many of the most elegant escorts, regardless of ethnicity, are not black male friendly. I have seen many ads which state “No black men”, “No black men under 30”, “No black men under 40”, “No thugs”, “Upscale gentlemen only”… You get the point. I have had several 5-star ladies this past summer and it turned out to be one of my best summers. Because I am highly discriminative myself, especially seeing how ugly-to-mediocre women get so much undeserved attention, in addition to witnessing women playing ugly games with men in the dating scene (especially on social networks), I can relate.
Granted, a percentage beautiful escorts actually lust black men while others don’t care about the guys’ ethnicity. As in this arena, it’s not about racism, but green-ism. I wouldn’t go as far as calling it ‘racism’, but essentially having standards. And I can understand, because for me, it takes a lot for me to like a black woman. Most black females are fucked up and I’m sure many will agree. Why are some of these women not too excited about black men? Well, the reasons vary. In many cases, brothers bring it on themselves.
The most commonplace excuses for black-male rejection is that many black guys are, by their own admission, ghetto. This includes acting extremely childish and immature and those who happen to be well-known braggarts (playing the numbers game), thieves, thugs, drug-addled, hygienically unconscious, not being groomed and are cheap, thus wanting too much for too little. Understandable, many people witness young black men doing stupid shit and it doesn’t stop there. Negative attention is also drawn due to simple over-exuberant acts, such as guys going to nightclubs throwing money in the air (an act called ‘making it rain’). I admit that, unfortunately – and not to stereotype – there are handfuls of black males who do fall in these categories, particularly if they reside in a major city. And it’s always one idiot or group of idiots who fuck it up for everyone else. Not to say that it is fair, but in life, what is? For this, there are even very few black escorts who will refuse to service black men.
Peculiarly, some of the women have boyfriends who are afraid they may lose their girlfriend to another man who is sexually superior to him. Speaking of which, I met a pretty Middle Eastern girl at an airport coming from a trip to Florida in the Summer, 2012. Turns out, she was an escort. “I don’t like niggas as my customers”, she stated. I ask why, as I found it rather odd since the love of her life is a black guy, who is currently in prison for murder. “They want too much for too little, they are too needy, they try to cheat you and they end up falling in love with you and I’m not looking for that.” Later, she admitted that most of the guys who frequent her are – as she put it – disgusting – and let’s face it, most female sex workers do feel that more than half of the men who frequent them are humans in their lowest form, though they have high-end professions. They are, without reasoning, labeled as “fat, hairy, ugly, stinking motherfuckers” while others sneak contraceptives off and hell-bent on taking pictures, making the ladies’ work stressful. She mentioned, “If I got with a black guy, it would be for the orgasm, because the other guys can never give me that. So, I just focus on taking their money.”
Another common excuse relies heavily on the stereotype of black men having large penises. A white escort may say “He’ll stretch me out and make me sore and I’ll have to take a week off. Black men are so rough and they’ll cause me to lose money.” After my session with an escort (a black girl who resembles Beyonce) one morning, her and I spoke about this. She rolled her eyes and said “Mr. O., bitches are stupid. You know that, right?” After nodding my head in agreement, she continues to say “Anytime you hear a girl say that, she’s not taking care of herself.” She implied that most young girls are clueless on how to keep themselves tight with kegel exercises. In addition to that, she explained that the myth of the big black penis is a myth, which is largely true, to an extent; however, black men are not the only ones with big penises. She explained that she met a white guy with a big penis and she fearlessly took him.
Be that all as it may, some of the ladies are, indeed, fickle. Interracial porn-king Lexington Steele said via an interview in Scott Poulson-Bryant’s book, Hung, that some of the women in the porn industry are equally bad, though it does not imply the women are racist. Lexington Steele also states how some females claim they do not fuck black guys, but will give up the pussy to an athlete or a musician in a heartbeat.
Even for the women who do prefer black men (whether they are sex workers or average females in the dating scene), they despise ghetto black men and as a result, have no problem turning one down or throwing him under the bus to her ‘sisters’ or other men who they happen to find more desirable. Are escorts racist towards black men? Does it even qualify ‘racism’? Yes and no. Just like the employer in corporate America who will make some people work harder for their trust. I am not excusing this in its entirety, though I am the same way when it comes to my being discriminative of black women and, hell, some American white girls alike. It’s not our fault some people have a damaged reputation to the point to where they may eventually make it hard for the next person who looks like them.
Thank God for the undesirables, as it makes the competition pool so much smaller and easier for the world’s greatest!
(Black men need to take themselves more seriously.)