Stupid Fucking Matchstick Men

This topic is inspired by a most recent event I’ve encountered – specific incidents will be hidden or altered.

Before I continue with this topic, I want to bring up the definition of a matchstick man. By definition, a “matchstick man” is a con artist, i.e. a “bullshitter”. It can represent a stick figure drawing.

In this case, I am using the term to describe pussy-whipped men, simple-simon MFs and manginas who are as effective and virile as a stick figure drawing. Or simply put, men who con themselves that somehow “love conquers all”.

One night, I had went out barhopping with some guy friends on a prowl for hot non-white pussy. Yes, I said it! Anyhoo… We all went to one “hood” bar full of young ratchet black girls and ghetto “thugs”. Just as we were leaving (the place was too ghetto for our liking), I had noticed a young, flabby, out-of-shape girl verbally annihilating a dude (boyfriend?) publicly about his supposed whereabouts. All me and one guy could hear was “What the fuck are you doing here in this bar?” We all looked at eachother with pained expressions of contempt. The guy seemed to be in his 20s and was physically challenged. Whoever this bitch was, she was pointing in his face and pitching a bitch – the guy just stood there and took her shit. Then, she ends up punching the guy in the kisser. It was so bad to where one of the bouncers stepped up to her and told her to “take that shit outside!” – something her lackey didn’t have the balls to do. Soon enough, this pathetic specimen approaches a friend of his, and says “Don’t have him around no other bitches, or I’mma have to hunt you down, okay?”

I don’t understand how anyone can take so much shit… anyhoo…

Why am I bringing this up? Well, because even in a time and place of alternatives where women are throwing themselves at men in various places, it seems that most men want to be slaves to women. Many of them (race irrelevant) seem to assume that marriages and LTRs are the ultimate goal of human existence.

Recently, I’ve encountered a number of men who are current participants of the dating game – most of them playa/thug-like who want to relinquish their options in hope of finding “the one”. While most of these guys have their pick of the litter, others use barhopping, nightclubbing, game and numbers games in hopes of finding “the right one”. After they feel they’ve accomplished that, they predict themselves of “bowing out of the game”.

My question is… “why?”

Why would any man with a shred of self-respect, balls, a spine and some options would sign up for this? Regardless if it was traditional marriage or modern marriage, it always benefit women, society and the “elites” at the expense of men. And what did they get in return?

Monogamy was never about happiness, but necessity, struggle and survival. Anything beats the pathetic regime of a relationship – peculiar to say, even men living “on the DL” have it better than a guy who’s in a monogamous partnership. I mean, yes the “DL” lifestyle is risky in that it creates a higher chance of spreading STDs among gay or bisexual men, but that can be prevented with contraception and some pragmatic responsibility.

I’m not saying that men are totally innocent, but the way that women run game on men has to either be observed from afar, or to be heard from vainglorious women telling on themselves (you can do that by getting them to talk to you). Most of society tries to hide the dark side of women and for that, the only mediums that deliver commentaries about the dark side of the female species are… drumroll …rap music and PUA/game blogs. Thanks to that and more essentially real-life interactions, women are being put on blast and furthering their own cause.

But in spite of all of the hardcore concrete evidence, most men con themselves that it wont happen to them. Maybe because their woman is “special”, or “innocent”… or because she’s a virgin (yeah… right), or some “born again” Christian, god-fearing church girl, or some other petty shit. But as they say… love is blind and ignorance is bliss. And people will deteriorate for their lack of knowledge.

I’ve heard few guys say that long lasting LTRs aren’t based on great sex. Well then, why the fuck do people cheat and yearn for something extra/new on the side? Why do couples have to schedule intimacy as if it’s a trip to the orthodontist? What’s the point if the cost is greater than the benefit? I’ve heard men say that they masturbate even in LTRs as a way to avoid cheating… on a woman who hasn’t put out in months. But guess what? Does she even feel that way? Or are you the only idiot doing it?

In today’s world, if a woman isn’t giving it up in a LTR/marriage, there’s an automatic assumption that she’s fucking somebody else. And you may never know it. Once a woman loses respect or attraction to a man, almost nothing can change that (unless she’s run out of options)!

Other bring up age as a factor in their desperate premonitions. Like women, they do this out of fear of loneliness. For some men, that’s the only way they can ever get a woman to drop her drawers for him. They never factor in that love isn’t set in stone. Women especially talk that shit, but they don’t follow through with it. Why? Maybe because love doesn’t pay the bills. Love isn’t as heated and intense as lust, or the quest for self. Maybe because there’s always someone else who can do everything you have… only much better. Whatever the reason may be.

The sad reality is that nothing lasts forever. Humans are disposable. Not just in society and occupations, but even as it pertains to personal relations. In the eyes of women, men are very disposable, but the truth is much of this is self-inflicted. It’s obvious women have no respect for the ordinary man – neither does their enablers (the system matrix included). Bad boys, street “thugs” and pipe-laying playboys get more respect and higher quality of pussy than educated, on-point simps and worker drones. However, even when the fling is over with the former group, a woman can always create a delusional picture of herself by coming up with shit like “I was just using him for sex.” But, that too is another story…

The more I see shit like the real-life story I’ve mentioned at the start of this topic, the more I know that I am doing what’s right for myself.

As Charles Bukowski once said, “Never envy a man his lady. Behind it all lays a living hell.”

One thought on “Stupid Fucking Matchstick Men

  1. Been reading your blog for a while now, thanks for putting your thoughts into words, and saying what so many people have been afraid to say for so long. – a reader from Singapore.

    Thank you. (Stay tuned…)

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